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You have been married to the love of your life for years, and the emotional connection you have with her is not only deep, but intense. But love is not the only thing that holds a marriage together. Nobody wants to admit it, but sex is not only an important part of any healthy relationship, it is as important as love.

Now that you have been married for a few years, things are pretty much routine now. Maybe it is time to get a little bit creative to bring that first kiss feeling back into the relationship.

1. Date Her

How did you win her over in the first place? When was the last time you went on an honest to goodness date? Call her, ask her out, and pick her up, just like you did. Don't expect to end up in the bedroom, instead, play like you did when you first started dating.

If going back that far isn't something that you think you can do, try a date weekend. Drive a couple of hours and check into a hotel. Get dressed up, go out to dinner at nice restaurant. Then do something that you might not do in your home town. Maybe live theater or a boat ride. Just something that is a little different from what you may do at home. Spend one evening in the room, order room service, and watch romantic movies. As long as it is something you are doing together, with no distractions, it will create an atmosphere of romance and love.

2. Compliment Her

Men may not realize it, but women go to a good deal of effort to look good. Is she wearing something new? Does her hair look different or did she try a new look with her makeup? What about a new perfume? It may seem like something little to you, but to her, chances are this little change took her a great deal of time. Say something. Point it out specifically, don't just say that she looks good, point it out.

Don't limit it to physical appearances either. Did she try to cook something new for you? Did she change something in the house, or add something to the decor? Did she just land a big client at work, or get a raise? Compliment her. She worked very hard to achieve these things. Let her know you appreciate it.

By letting her know you see it, you will see that she will do even more, and the more you compliment, the happier she will be, and just may be willing to show that appreciation in bed.

3. Seduce her

Just because a woman is married or has kids does not mean she is not a woman. She still wants to be romanced. She still wants to be wined and dined. She wants to feel like the beautiful, sexy woman you fell in love with. So make her feel like it.

Many men make the assumption that because they are married they will always have sex available when they want it. Women need to feel loved.

So when you get home, pull out all the stops. It is hard to resist the charms of a man who really wants his woman over and above all others.

4. Fulfill Her Fantasies

All women have fantasies. She may be open enough to tell you what they are, but she may not be, and will require a little coaxing. Use the information you have gathered over the years and hone in on what she really wants. Even if you can't fulfill all of them, if you make the effort, you will certainly be rewarded. This is a benefit to both of you.

If you want to improve intimacy with your wife, don't just head to the bedroom. Sex is important, but don't make her feel like it is a task or a job. Make her feel like she is the most beautiful woman on the planet and you appreciate everything about her. This will certainly heat things up for both of you.

Ever heard of the comfort zone? The bedroom is meant to be one. You come into a man's abode for the first time, he takes you round, showing you which room is which till you get to the last one, the bedroom. Your bedroom must be as inviting as possible to arouse your partner. Women love sensuous feelings at all times in a romance. An untidy and unkempt room is usually a turn off. Most women love to be caressed, fondled, complimented and shown intimacy and affection. All these make the mood swing right. Whether it is a first date or a ten year old marriage, women do not just want to have sex but really make love hence the need to get the foreplay right is as important as having good sex.

Here are some tips to help you get it right:

Mood

Set your mood aright. You may have had a heated argument but don't let that becloud your sense of arousal. Relax your mind and let love fill you up gradually. Respond to the touch it may be another way of saying 'I'm sorry'.

IGNITION

Come give me a hug. Warm long hug is proven to pep up a woman's level of hormone that heightens sexual arousal. Hug yourselves and express deep feelings of how wonderful it feels to be in each other's arms. Exchange deep passionate kiss. Pour ice cream all over her body and lick off teasingly with loving kisses.

Boost his ego

Don't hide your feelings, boost his ego by saying 'You know I enjoy it so much, you really turn me on with your tongue'. Avoid negative and cynical comments such as 'Don't you know how best to turn me on? I can't stand your touch'. These are turn offs and not encouraging at all. Be matured about it and guide him to what you expect if he is not getting it right.

Tell him what you want

Communication is key in relationship. Express your mind to achieve the kind of pleasure you have in mind. If you want it slow, say so. If otherwise, blurt it out. Remind him of something good he did to your body that sets you on fire sometimes. Use one word at a time like 'slowly', 'great', 'go left', go right', go down', go up' just any how you want it, let it flow. Get your rhythm.

Shower Trick

Remember the warm warmth sweet scent of bath gel and bubble bath. All these have a way of moving things in the right direction. Call him over to give your back a scrub. The slippery effect if properly applied may work wonder.

Identify your soft spot

Don't get frustrated if he is not getting it right. Identify your soft spot and carry him along. Teach him the new things your body craves for and guide him gently to them.

Find ways to say it's not working

In spite of all, if you are not feeling right about the whole process, find a way to say it's not working for you perhaps you may want to explore another avenue. Do not discourage him out rightly. You can tell him to slot in one of your favourite romantic song or movie. This will help you disconnect from the thought of having sex and set you up in the right mood for love making. Perhaps its that time of your cycle when the mood is not always right, turn the mood aright by retuning your head to receiving the vibes that come with love making. Try to view sex as the antidote to your frenzied life, a time to relax and enjoy.

Of all the behaviors in a lawyer's interpersonal toolbox eye communication is one of the most important. This is because only your eyes make a direct connection with your clients.

Eye contact carries messages of attention, interest, involvement, intimacy, as well as intimidation. Everything depends upon the length of the gaze. Representing over 90 percent of your personal communication, eye contact of two-to-four seconds is what communicates your desire to connect and create a rapport, your understanding and empathy.

The actual meaning of any eye contact, especially of longer duration, will depend, in part, upon other nonverbal communication itself, the context of the situation, and the relationship of the interactants. For example, eye contact of 10 seconds or more may mean "I find you attractive" OR "Watch out or you'll be sorry!" Your tone and body language accompanying it will suggest the appropriate interpretation of the gaze.

The general recommendation is to "look at each other naturally." But what does that really mean? It means look away occasionally so you do not appear to stare. But, at the same time, you have to be careful not to look away so frequently you appear to dart your eyes. Rapidly moving eyes can make you look like a frightened animal. Casualness is the key.

Similarly, you need to keep focused on the other person. Specifically, it is important that you not look at the floor, out the window or at any place other than that the speaker or listener. Glancing around makes you look uncomfortable or disinterested.

If you have difficult making eye contact, you can sweep your gaze over the eyes, look at one eye or the other, at the bridge of the nose, eyebrow, or high on the cheek near the eye. When you show discomfort in the interaction, your client will absorb that emotion, experience it too, and wonder if they really want to be there with you.

Surprisingly the rate at which you blink makes a difference in how others relate to you. A "slow blink," when your eyes are closed for at least five seconds' duration, creates confusion in your clients. Most will not know how to interpret this behavior: Are you bored or anxious or something else?

I personally experienced this slow-blink confusion when having dinner with an attorney I had just met at a conference. When he was not spearing filet mignon or lobster, he was talking to me with his eyes closed. After a while, I felt I was invisible to him and felt bad for his clients.

The only exception to this direct-gaze communication requirement is when you are on camera in an interview format. In this situation you maintain good steady eye contact with the interviewer (not the camera). it shows attentiveness, enthusiasm, interest, and involvement.

How sure are you that your eye contact is good with clients? It is always useful to assess your eye contact behavior to make sure you have not slipped into any bad habits. Some simple ways to increase your awareness of what you do and what you might need to work on include:

- Using the second hand of your watch, count out five seconds and practice holding eye contact with another person for that period of time.

- Using a friend, check to see how it feels when someone
- (1) Looks at you for five, ten, and fifteen seconds
- (2) Looks away for five, ten, and fifteen seconds
- (3) Darts their eyes for ten seconds
- (4) Does a five-to-ten-second slow blink.
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- Observe others in real life, on TV, and in the movies to see how different eye contact makes you feel about the person or character.

- If comfortable doing so,
- (1) Videotape yourself talking with and listening to another or
- (2) Have a friend monitor and analyze your eye-contact habits.

It is important to remember that your eyes speak volumes about you and what you think, feel, and do, not only to your clients and staff but also to juries. With awareness and practice you can make your eyes convey exactly what you want when you want it to create that rapport and relationship.