About Movie

You have been married to the love of your life for years, and the emotional connection you have with her is not only deep, but intense. But love is not the only thing that holds a marriage together. Nobody wants to admit it, but sex is not only an important part of any healthy relationship, it is as important as love.

Now that you have been married for a few years, things are pretty much routine now. Maybe it is time to get a little bit creative to bring that first kiss feeling back into the relationship.

1. Date Her

How did you win her over in the first place? When was the last time you went on an honest to goodness date? Call her, ask her out, and pick her up, just like you did. Don't expect to end up in the bedroom, instead, play like you did when you first started dating.

If going back that far isn't something that you think you can do, try a date weekend. Drive a couple of hours and check into a hotel. Get dressed up, go out to dinner at nice restaurant. Then do something that you might not do in your home town. Maybe live theater or a boat ride. Just something that is a little different from what you may do at home. Spend one evening in the room, order room service, and watch romantic movies. As long as it is something you are doing together, with no distractions, it will create an atmosphere of romance and love.

2. Compliment Her

Men may not realize it, but women go to a good deal of effort to look good. Is she wearing something new? Does her hair look different or did she try a new look with her makeup? What about a new perfume? It may seem like something little to you, but to her, chances are this little change took her a great deal of time. Say something. Point it out specifically, don't just say that she looks good, point it out.

Don't limit it to physical appearances either. Did she try to cook something new for you? Did she change something in the house, or add something to the decor? Did she just land a big client at work, or get a raise? Compliment her. She worked very hard to achieve these things. Let her know you appreciate it.

By letting her know you see it, you will see that she will do even more, and the more you compliment, the happier she will be, and just may be willing to show that appreciation in bed.

3. Seduce her

Just because a woman is married or has kids does not mean she is not a woman. She still wants to be romanced. She still wants to be wined and dined. She wants to feel like the beautiful, sexy woman you fell in love with. So make her feel like it.

Many men make the assumption that because they are married they will always have sex available when they want it. Women need to feel loved.

So when you get home, pull out all the stops. It is hard to resist the charms of a man who really wants his woman over and above all others.

4. Fulfill Her Fantasies

All women have fantasies. She may be open enough to tell you what they are, but she may not be, and will require a little coaxing. Use the information you have gathered over the years and hone in on what she really wants. Even if you can't fulfill all of them, if you make the effort, you will certainly be rewarded. This is a benefit to both of you.

If you want to improve intimacy with your wife, don't just head to the bedroom. Sex is important, but don't make her feel like it is a task or a job. Make her feel like she is the most beautiful woman on the planet and you appreciate everything about her. This will certainly heat things up for both of you.