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• Jim and Jenny have trouble finding someone to watch their children. They have a lot of trouble communicating but child care, finding a therapist with flexible hours and coming up with the money for everything is very expensive. Online marriage counseling may be the answer for Jim and Jenny.
• Ann and John live in a rural community and have few qualified marriage counselors around. Online marriage counseling may be the answer for Ann and John.
• Steve is a police officer on third shift and Lucy works first shift. This is the easiest way to care for the children but leaves little time to talk about some of their concerns. Online marriage counseling may be the answer for Steve and Lucy.
• Tony is stationed in Iraq and Sandy is stateside with their children. They have some tough things to talk about that really should not wait until Tony gets home 6 months from now. Online marriage counseling may be the answer for Tony and Sandy.

All four of these couples want to get some help for their marriage but lots of things stand in the way of getting the help that they want. For each of them, online marriage counseling may be a good place to receive help for their marriage.

Online marriage counseling can be an invaluable tool for some couples. A competent, licensed, professional marriage counselor can share practical suggestions that might include homework of reading, tests or exercises, conversations to have with each other, suggested downloads or audios, watching videos or movies.

While working online through email, chat or phone might seem awkward or uncomfortable for some, it seems very natural for others. For couples who might not have the ability to get to a good and experienced therapist, it offers the opportunity to develop a better understanding of themselves and their relationship and learn new ways of working together that can help them solve difficult problems.

How Does Online Marriage Counseling Work?

There are several ways that we provide online marriage counseling through Counseling Relationships Online. We provide relationship help through email, chat or by phone (with or without a video camera).

With email online marriage counseling, we will want to work with both people at the same time, while possibly asking for one or two private individual emails.

Partners each take turns emailing one of us. We will then respond openly in an email to both partners addressing the concerns. Once we have a handle on your particular problem and what you would like to achieve, then the we can begin to offer ideas to help you move out of a "stuck spot" and back to a healthier place.

Online marriage counseling through email exchanges continues in this manner until you feel that you are at a better spot or have resolved the problem that you began with.

The benefits of email therapy, for online marriage counseling, are that it can be as short or enduring as you would like. As we address issues, you may decide you want to "go deeper" and we can easily do that by continuing with email or even adding chat sessions to the mix.

The point is, you are in the driver's seat. If one email gives you the information you need to resolve the presenting problem, that is great! If you think that you want several emails, you may choose to purchase a package.

Chat online marriage counseling involves email but with the added advantage of instant replies and ongoing conversation. If you are interested in this form if therapy, we will invite you to log on to a secure chat room where we can exchange emails about your questions and concerns.

Through phone online marriage counseling, with or without a video camera, we have the opportunity to talk in real time about your concerns. With a phone session, you can be in the privacy and comfort of your own home or private space and consult with a professional therapist who can help you determine a direction to take to begin solving your problems. Together, we will arrange for a protected and encrypted phone line.

There is no reason not to receive help with relationship problems today. Online marriage counseling is a place to begin.

You met the spouse of your dreams, fell in love, courted for a while and then got married. Life is wonderful and things seem to be going just fine. Then all of a sudden it appears that you two have started to grow apart.

Could it be that it is the long hours at work, or do you simply need to rekindle the flame? The following are some tips on how to save your marriage and get back to that blissful partnership you once had.

The first thing to do is to find out what happened. Why does there seem to be a distance between you and your spouse? There are a lot of reasons why a person can appear to be distanced from their partner. Once you have determined what the issue is, you can work it out and grow close again.

The second thing to consider is to make plans to schedule date nights. If you have kids, find a babysitter and take your wife out to a nice restaurant for a nice romantic evening, a nice movie, or maybe even Salsa dancing, if you are the adventurous type.

Another thing to look at, have you let yourself go? So take a hard look at yourself, and see where you might need improvement. You might even ask your spouse if that is the problem.

If you have an open line of communication, it shouldn't be a problem to get a straight answer. If your appearance is the issue, then maybe you can partake in a gym membership and work out together.

The bottom line here is that everyone experiences bumps in their marriage. However if you take the necessary steps to smooth out those bumps then all can be well.

If you start to see your marriage headed down the dreaded break up path, be quick to do something.

Ever heard of the comfort zone? The bedroom is meant to be one. You come into a man's abode for the first time, he takes you round, showing you which room is which till you get to the last one, the bedroom. Your bedroom must be as inviting as possible to arouse your partner. Women love sensuous feelings at all times in a romance. An untidy and unkempt room is usually a turn off. Most women love to be caressed, fondled, complimented and shown intimacy and affection. All these make the mood swing right. Whether it is a first date or a ten year old marriage, women do not just want to have sex but really make love hence the need to get the foreplay right is as important as having good sex.

Here are some tips to help you get it right:

Mood

Set your mood aright. You may have had a heated argument but don't let that becloud your sense of arousal. Relax your mind and let love fill you up gradually. Respond to the touch it may be another way of saying 'I'm sorry'.

IGNITION

Come give me a hug. Warm long hug is proven to pep up a woman's level of hormone that heightens sexual arousal. Hug yourselves and express deep feelings of how wonderful it feels to be in each other's arms. Exchange deep passionate kiss. Pour ice cream all over her body and lick off teasingly with loving kisses.

Boost his ego

Don't hide your feelings, boost his ego by saying 'You know I enjoy it so much, you really turn me on with your tongue'. Avoid negative and cynical comments such as 'Don't you know how best to turn me on? I can't stand your touch'. These are turn offs and not encouraging at all. Be matured about it and guide him to what you expect if he is not getting it right.

Tell him what you want

Communication is key in relationship. Express your mind to achieve the kind of pleasure you have in mind. If you want it slow, say so. If otherwise, blurt it out. Remind him of something good he did to your body that sets you on fire sometimes. Use one word at a time like 'slowly', 'great', 'go left', go right', go down', go up' just any how you want it, let it flow. Get your rhythm.

Shower Trick

Remember the warm warmth sweet scent of bath gel and bubble bath. All these have a way of moving things in the right direction. Call him over to give your back a scrub. The slippery effect if properly applied may work wonder.

Identify your soft spot

Don't get frustrated if he is not getting it right. Identify your soft spot and carry him along. Teach him the new things your body craves for and guide him gently to them.

Find ways to say it's not working

In spite of all, if you are not feeling right about the whole process, find a way to say it's not working for you perhaps you may want to explore another avenue. Do not discourage him out rightly. You can tell him to slot in one of your favourite romantic song or movie. This will help you disconnect from the thought of having sex and set you up in the right mood for love making. Perhaps its that time of your cycle when the mood is not always right, turn the mood aright by retuning your head to receiving the vibes that come with love making. Try to view sex as the antidote to your frenzied life, a time to relax and enjoy.