How to Be More Comfortable With Your Date

Are there always awkward moments in your date? Do you stress about what to say or what not to say in front of your date? Do you wish you could be more comfortable when you're with the guy you like? A good sate is not at all clumsy or unnerving - in fact, for a sate to be considered successful, both parties must be completely at ease. Here are some tips on how to be more comfortable with your date - whether it's a first date or not.

1. Keep it light. Lightening up the mood with a good conversation or a good joke always works like a charm. This will not only break the tension but will also give you a chance to communicate. Some safe topics to talk about include movies, books, at, travel, and food. Never bring up debatable issues, such as religion or politics. If you find yourself disagreeing with your date about something trivial, just shrug it off and move on. This is a date, after all - not a deliberation.

2. Be yourself. Try not to act that you are a completely different person when you are with your guy, or you risk looking like a fake to him. There is absolutely no reason to lie about how rich you are, how well-traveled you are, or how smart you are. Be honest, because honesty and trust are the foundations of a good relationship. Can you imagine how embarrassing it would be if he found out that you were just making up your credentials all along? Just be yourself. If he really likes you, he will find that fascinating.

3. If possible, date guys that you were already comfortable with even before you started dating. Friends or good acquaintances are the best dates, because with them, you can skip the awkward "getting to know you" phase and just jump in on the fun conversations.

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