6 Easy Ways to Enhance Romance and Reconnect With Your Partner

In these days of tight budgets, long workdays, and jobs that keep us separated, it's easy to get in a rut and start to feel distanced from each other. Here are 6 ways that take very little effort or money that you can do each and every day that will collectively have a huge impact on the mood of your partner and help reignite the romance in your relationship. The following list is designed to help manage the mood of your partner and keep him or her thinking about you throughout the day. This is so the day in and day out routine they face at their job doesn't get in the way of having a good evening together when they get home.

  • Tomorrow bring your partner a cup of coffee and breakfast in bed. It doesn't even have to be a hot breakfast. Simple toast or cereal with coffee will do the job.
  • Before you leave or your partner leaves tell them how great they smell or that their hair, or clothes looks particularly good today.
  • During the day communicate with your partner just to let them know your thinking about them. Don't complain about anything or vent. Save that for your friends. Depending on your partner's job, you may have to be creative and find the way that best enables you connect without interfering with work. Some different ways to do this are sending texts to their personal cell phone, instant messaging their computer, a quick email, and of course a quick phone call.
  • At least once a week, if it is feasible meet your partner for lunch.
  • When you first see each other in the afternoon or after work, before you say anything at all just give them a hug, a kiss and tell them how much you missed them.
  • In the evening try not to get in a rut. Mix up what you do each night. One night go out to eat, one night rent a movie, one night go for a walk, one night get together with friends and have game night. Too many couples get in a rut of the same routine every evening with each doing their own thing. Sometimes work does have to be done and time given up to the realities of making a living, but I think you get the point that you have to diversify your after work routine to prevent bad habits that interfere with your relationship from developing.

If you will make an honest attempt at the list above and do it repeatedly for an extended period of time, I promise that your relationship will start to feel special again.

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