Make Him Feel Your Love - You Need to Have a Plan

Are you trying to find a way to show your guy how much you love him? Are you worried that you might not know how to do it? Are you concerned about the way he might interpret your actions? There are good and not so good ways to make him feel your love. Follow along for tips to help you go about it the right way.

You need to consider a few guidelines before you jump into action. It would be a good idea to follow a plan which takes into account your desired result and his possible reactions to your efforts. Ultimately, the bottom line is subtlety.

First, follow your guy's lead. Let his actions determine the pace at which your relationship moves forward. There are signals which he will give out and you must be in tune with him to pick up on them. For instance, if your guy checks in with you every day or even a few times a day, it is obvious that he is truly into you. This gives you the green light to call him on a regular basis because you have let him set the tone for the frequency of talking with each other.

You should also pay attention to the emotional level of your dates. Movies, ball games, or a few cocktails are non-committal types of dates; however, family dinners, office parties, or romantic candlelight dinners are much more serious. Follow his pace; do not take the initiative here.

Don't reveal your most intimate details of your life too soon. Letting your guy know your deepest emotional thoughts too early is a sure way to make him withdraw. You could appear very needy or too attached too soon. Whatever he may think, you certainly are not making him feel your love when you unload your emotional baggage on him before he's feeling that connected to you.

Finally, don't let on how smitten you are with him. A guy does not want to be led into love; he wants to know that it is his choice to pursue a relationship. There's a fine line here and you must always be conscious of how much affection you show him. Show enough to let him know how much you care, but don't go overboard. And, certainly, public displays of affection in front of his friends are a big, big mistake. Guys are overly conscious of their friends' opinions and you definitely do not want them giving him a hard time about your actions.

You can make your guy feel your love if you plan ahead. A plan helps you succeed; but it also helps you avoid making some unfortunate mistakes.

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