How Do I Get My Ex Girlfriend Back If She is Telling Me That She Needs Space?

You never thought it would happen, but it did. Your girlfriend broke up with you - said she needed some space. OK - space. What does that mean, exactly?

Usually, when one of the couple says they need space, they aren't happy in the relationship anymore. It's an easy way out.

By your reading this article, you want to try and work things out with her. You miss your ex girlfriend, and desperately want her back. You CAN win her back...

If she said that she needs space, then that means she isn't open to communicate with you. That's ok, though. You can still send her signals that you want her back. That you do still love her.

Start by simply saying 'Hi" to her when you see her. Don't give her the third degree, just be casual. Make small talk. Talk about the weather, work, school, a new movie... anything BUT your relationship. This will make her less anxious about talking to you - she won't be afraid that you're going to try to pull a reason or an answer out of her.

Every good relationship begins as a friendship. The two of you were friends at one time. Be friends again! That is the easiest way to get her back into your life. As your friendship grows, she will start to open up to you. Then you can talk about what went wrong before, and the two of you can talk about your future together. Only, this time, you will both know what not to do, in order to keep a happy relationship.

Remember this - relationships happen all the time. There are as many reasons for the breakups are there are people on the Earth - maybe more. By someone saying they need space, they just don't want to have to try to explain anything. Maybe they feel that your relationship has reached a point where the two of you should take things to the next level, and it scared them. Maybe there are different reasons, but you're going to wind up driving yourself crazy if you continue to try to figure it out.

The only sure way to get her back in your arms again is to be friends with her. She's going to need a shoulder to cry on, and let that shoulder be yours. Imagine the two of you back together, and having fun again, and turn it into reality.

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