Finding Time As Parents to Have a Great Sex Life - Mommy and Daddy Deserve Awesome Sex Too!

Any parent knows that trying to find time, let alone the energy to spend some romantic time together is very difficult. As much as you love your children, to keep your relationship healthy, sometimes you just need to get away alone. Nothing is worse than being in the middle of time together and hearing a little voice from the doorway asking for a drink of water.

Because you have children, you need to put a little more thought and planning into your time alone. You can still be spontaneous, but it may be interrupted. It is best to remove that potential from the equation.

Babysitters are a quick and easy fix. The teenager next door can come over, and you and your spouse can go out on a nice date. However, when you get home, you haven't really helped with the next step. Of course you may have rekindled something, but the end of the date may be the end of the magic.

Instead, try to find a friend or family member who will not only babysit, but babysit at their house. Overnight! By forgetting that you are a parent for one night, you can bring back the passion you experienced when you first started dating.

If you belong to a play group and you are close to a few of the other parents, maybe plan something with them. Swap nights out. This way, you don't have to pay for a sitter, and you know your child is having fun.

If you don't have anyway to have your child stay at another house for the night, find someone trustworthy who can stay at your house overnight with your child. Then, check into a hotel, and go out on your date. Instead of coming home, you can extend the date into a fantasy night.

Try to make the magic last from the start of the date until the next day. This way, you aren't just going to be like a couple of friends going to a movie, instead, you are a couple.

There are things you can do on a day to day basis that can keep the romance alive, and help build passion until your next date night. Little unexpected kisses while you are walking by each other can be one way. Send each other love notes via text, e-mail or even pen and paper. Bring home flowers one night. Little things to let your partner know that you still see them as the sexy person you fell in love with long before children came along.

Being a parent is one of the most fulfilling things you can do. Just make sure you don't lose the love and romance.

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